Prayer is so very important. Many Pagans don't pray because of their past religious experiences with prayer. Prayer is the first step of living every moment in sacred space. Sacred means to make Holy (whole-y). A thing that is Holy is a thing "that must be preserved whole or intact, that cannot be transgressed or violated" (http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?term=holy) It is the elevation of the self beyond the mundane; beyond this plane; beyond ourself to ourself.
A Blessing is an act. It is not words or hand motions (with or without props). If you bless a thing that thing changes. If it fails to change then you have failed to bless. To Bless is "to consecrate, make holy" the word is related to blood and was originally a sprinkling of blood on "Pagan" Altars. (http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?term=bless) The blood was a transaction. All blessings must have a transaction to occur. The Christians 'civilized' the transaction of blessing by embodying blood in bread.
This section will explore the basics of Paganism. Here you will learn the how and some of the when. The why will come later. Nothing in this section is dangerous if the instructions are followed properly. We are not responsible for your karma....